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thank you everyone for your support, re: deadphotos
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you have given me the strength to contact lj abuse and, hopefully, get it back. i love that community. i have started a lot of communities (photocontest , for one), but i gave them over to other people. deadphotos (and crochetcrochet are the only ones i've kept. and my email is anavoog@gmail.com is anyone ever has any problems with those communities. i am HERE. and passionate about my communities. thank you again. {{{xox}}}

p.s. yes i am the oryx and crake girl

edit: THANK YOU everyone for your support. i cannot tell you what it means to me. it restores my faith in this planet. thank you there is still justice and diginity and kindness and caring in this world.
as bjork said (greatly condensed) "all is full of love. maybe not from these sources you have poured yours"
and so, from sf_drama...all is full of love.
a source i had not expected support, but there you were for me.
imagine if we did this every day for each how the world would be.

never be silent.
stand up to bullying whereever and whenever you see it.
it DOES make a difference. really.
we need you to speak out and not be silent anymore.

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hey- total stranger here

letting you know that i contacted lj abuse over this, too, and i also wanted to let you know i'm deeply sorry for the loss of your son. it's tragic to have to come back to a community you love and be met with such callousness.

i hope this is made right very soon.

Another total stranger here.

I'm so sorry for your loss. And I'm sorry you have to deal with this bull on top of it. I hope you get your community back as quickly as it was stolen from you.

*hugs for you, if you want them*

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She loves the group but she also loved her child.

A child that she carried inside of her only to lose him tragically.

It. Destroys. People.

She loved the comm but she also loved her child. She needed time to grieve. I know a woman who lost her child over a decade ago who still weeps bitterly over it. It's a pain that never goes away completely, that never leaves your mind.

It's a community about deadthings.

It's...not that hard to piece together.

Have you thought about talking through your opinions with a professional? I would highly recommend it.

If you need any help finding the assistance you clearly desperately need, I will help you. I understand this must be a cry for help.

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Which part of his/her reasoned and polite comment made you think they needed mental help?

it's a fucking livejournal community. shut the fuck up you heartless fuckass.

How DARE you try to equate the loss of her child with the "death" of a LIVEJOURNAL COMMUNITY. You are a heartless piece of shit. Fuck you kindly.

I don't know you but I just wanted to comment to show my support.

I'm so sorry that this should happen to you on top of everything else.

The support (and screencaps) of sf_drama re with you.

I sent you a PM but I do not know if you saw it, so I will say this here now:

I know you do not know me or anything, but I am very sorry to hear of your loss. I lost my daughter almost 2 years ago, and I understand the pain you are feeling. Do not allow others to try to put limits on your grief, or tell you that you are not grieving correctly. Know you are not alone (sadly), and there are others who can understand the pain of losing a child.
If you ever want to talk to someone who can understand, or want information about support, or memory walks, or anything else, feel free to send me a message- I am always willing to listen.

Good luck. I'm sorry that on top of everything else, you have to deal with this too.

I don't know you, but I just wanted to let you know that my thoughts & prayers are with you. <3

another person you don't know, but i am so sorry this is happening to you. i am so sorry for the loss of your son, and as a parent who lost a child during pregnancy, i can only imagine your pain.

so much love to you, and i hope your community returns to your hands.

i also saw your exhibit at the smitten kitten and loved it!

Just a stranger, here, but I am very sorry for your loss and having to deal with this.

I hope you get your community back soon and can put measures in place to ensure that you cannot be bothered by further hurtful comments.

I am so, so sorry for your loss, and I'm sending you all the good cheer I can muster. I'm glad you got your community back, and I hope Grygon will never darken your skies again.

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